The absolute debunking of a sexual myth!

By Stanley Collymore

You turn me on in a fashion I previously thought it was highly

unlikely that anyone of my immediate acquaintance could

possibly do; for you know what they say: Familiarity

even if it doesn’t actually breed contempt often by

its precise nature and intimate association does

prevent those who’re directly involved from

actually forming meaningful relationships

of a personal and especially so a distinctly sexual nature.

And always having been told and in turn for so long

unquestioningly believed this, guess what? You

just happened to come along at the right time

and so easily, persuasively and effectively

in me have methodically debunked this

widespread and deeply held universal

fallacy which I have personally and

unthinkingly contributed to for so

long and naturally in the process

have pleasurably, ardently and

most positively I can joyfully

say in relation to all of this

proved most convincingly

in every way that I was,

let’s say, at best quite

mistakeningly wrong!

© Stanley V. Collymore

30 May 2017.

Author’s Remarks:

Without exception every one of us at some time or other from the onset of our individual pubertal years and a situation that usually develops with increased interest as we grow older and the intensity of our personal sexual yearning grows stronger is guilty of either invariably convincing ourselves or at least are most earnestly embarking on what we deem is a firm and concerted exercise of persuading ourselves that we’ve either done already or else are in the process of doing so what we assert we undoubtedly know, and that we’re essentially after in the particular sexual states we’re personally involved in and therefore we can further and also willingly embellish on as regards that particular viewpoint we hold in relation to what we unquestionably believe either does or doesn’t personally turn us on emotionally and most specifically so sexually

But when externally and closely examined, looked at objectively and even analytically these assumptions we generally and often consensually hold are little more than wishful delusional fantasies conveniently and self-servingly dressed up as firm and unchallenged reality when in effect there’s precious little or no substance whatsoever to any of them to clinically support these often keenly held and fervently espoused assumptions, the attendant tenaciously clung to beliefs or furthermore the entrenched and confidently stated aspirations such beliefs give rise to. And why it is that every clear-cut and sensible departure, deliberately or accidentally occasioned, is encouragingly a sound and worthwhile victory for the positive and stable process of natural human and an extensive species selection as well as the accompanying and, in realistic terms, ascendancy of common sense.